Please tell me I wasn't like this

OK...are all girls self absorbed rude creatures???? Yes, I know we all can be but it sure isn't fun when your on the other end. Who knew motherhood would be so emotional and confusing? You know, I pride myself on having great kids...they are confident, kind, respectful, mannerly, smart, and for the most part leaders. They know how to make good choices and usually make many of their own (age appropriate) decisions. Enter girlfriend...boy loses mind and just does what she says. She only thinks of herself and only does things the way she wants when she wants. UGH! Mom feels like she is losing control (and she is) and wants son to do what he wants and what mom feels is appropriate but girl is selfish and ruins everything! Mom wants her son to see the girl for how she really is but he just wants there to be peace...mom feels bad and cries. I feel like I'm living on a soap opera and he's only 14! So, I let it go...things work out and everyone is happy (kind of).
I know this is just the very tip of the iceberg with these creatures that lurk in the shadows of my sons life but I don't think anyone will ever be good enough. LOL The roller coaster ride just took it's first corkscrew. I came out a little queasy but unscathed. I just need to remember that he is a great young man with a good head on his shoulders and all will work out.
Until next time...keep me/us in your prayers. This mothering thing is great but it sure isn't easy.